poor sisters

i am fed up with those terrible titles of those christian columns about female christians.

"I am almost 26 years old, I am still single..."
"I am 33, I was dumped and no one would even want me..."
"I am 23, I am looking for love..."
"I was dumped after 7 years of relationship...tell me what should i do!!!"
"The men-to-women ratio in church is 3:7..."

Sounds desperate.
All these titles are concurrent. if i can do a statistics about that, i am sure they occur once every month.
i felt even more angry after reading the answers to these inquiries.

Pray hard.
Wait.
Go for counselling.
Wait
Wait and wait.
Do more exercises. (wat?!)
Have a positive self esteem.
Pray.
Don't victimise yourself.

O... man. Give me a break...
Most are making up their paces to meet the deadlines. Getting married before 28. 28 is a magic number. No life after 28. So I should have fallen into darkness for ages. The worst thing is that i was an "unenlightened" being. "Poor u, it's so unfortunately to be "unmarried"."
My goodness~
um... i don't think i look really that miserable to be "unmarried". It's pathological to be "unmarried".
in their eyes, this is true.
nothing can be done, except carrying the bad name.